feat: add seq cursor, work_items, provider fallback, and delivery reliability

Major reliability improvements to the message processing pipeline:

- Add messages.seq monotonic cursor replacing timestamp-based cursors,
  preventing message loss from timestamp collisions with LIMIT queries
- Add work_items table separating agent production from delivery,
  enabling delivery retry without re-running the agent
- Propagate Discord send failures instead of silently swallowing them
- Add Claude 429 → Kimi K2.5 automatic provider fallback with cooldown
- Fix follow-up turn state reset in live index.ts path (not just
  message-runtime.ts) to prevent final output from being lost
- Add restart context tracking for graceful restart announcements
- Lazy migration from timestamp cursors to seq cursors for existing data

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 4.6 <noreply@anthropic.com>

src/types.ts

@@ -28,6 +28,7 @@ export interface NewMessage {
   sender_name: string;
   content: string;
   timestamp: string;
+  seq?: number;
   is_from_me?: boolean;
   is_bot_message?: boolean;
 }