merge: integrate origin/main (406 commits) into live branch
Merge upstream's paired-room stabilization, dedicated message-runtime-loop,
outbound delivery refactor (ipc-outbound-delivery / deliverFormattedCanonicalMessage),
discord module split, dashboard rework, and migrations 015-018 into our branch.
Conflict policy: prefer upstream for the heavily-refactored paired-room /
message-runtime / db cluster (it supersedes our earlier loop band-aids), keep
only orthogonal unique fixes:
- codex bundled-JS launcher fix (codex-warmup.ts)
- slot-aligned Claude+Codex usage primer (usage-primer.ts) re-wired into index.ts
- MemoryHigh=3G cgroup bound, discord perms diagnostic, prompt docs
- progress null-race + silent-failure publish guards (message-turn-controller.ts)
Dropped (superseded by upstream or unwired): reviewer STEP_DONE/TASK_DONE loop
band-aids, router markdown-escape override, register tribunal-default+git-init,
restart-context rewindToSeq (unwired).
Verified: typecheck clean, build clean, vitest shows zero new regressions vs the
origin/main baseline (only pre-existing env-config failures remain).
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