Add Discord-native hybrid front-end for Jarvis (bot + bridge)

Transform isair/jarvis into a Discord-controlled voice assistant running on
the Ubuntu VNC desktop, keeping the mature ~39k-line Python brain intact.

- bot/ (Node + bun, discord.js): /자비스 slash commands (ephemeral),
  voice channel join + voice receive/playback, pluggable VNC screen broadcast
  (selfbot live / noVNC / screenshot)
- bridge/ (Python, Flask): wraps jarvis STT + run_reply_engine + Piper TTS
  behind a thin localhost HTTP API
- .env.example, scripts/ (start_bridge/start_bot/dev), README rewrite,
  docs/language-comparison.md and docs/vnc-xfce-setup.md

Language decision: hybrid (Python brain + Node/bun Discord layer) because
Discord blocks bot video; native screen broadcast only works via a Node
selfbot library.

tests/test_enrichment_model_routing.py

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+"""Behaviour test: memory enrichment extractor runs on the router model chain.
+
+The extractor used to run on the big chat model, which paged in the heavy
+weights just to emit a tiny JSON blob. It's now routed through
+``resolve_tool_router_model`` so it rides the already-warm small model.
+
+This test locks that in at the engine call-site — if somebody ever reverts to
+``cfg.ollama_chat_model`` there, the assertion fails.
+"""
+
+from __future__ import annotations
+
+from unittest.mock import patch, MagicMock
+
+import pytest
+
+
+@pytest.mark.unit
+def test_enrichment_extractor_uses_router_model_chain():
+    from jarvis.reply import engine as engine_mod
+
+    captured: dict[str, str] = {}
+
+    def _fake_extract(query, base_url, chat_model, **kwargs):
+        captured["chat_model"] = chat_model
+        return {"keywords": [], "questions": []}
+
+    cfg = MagicMock()
+    cfg.ollama_base_url = "http://localhost:11434"
+    cfg.ollama_chat_model = "big-chat"
+    cfg.intent_judge_model = "small-judge"
+    cfg.tool_router_model = ""
+    cfg.llm_tools_timeout_sec = 5.0
+    cfg.llm_thinking_enabled = False
+    cfg.memory_enrichment_source = "diary"
+    cfg.memory_enrichment_max_snippets = 3
+
+    with patch.object(engine_mod, "extract_search_params_for_memory", side_effect=_fake_extract), \
+         patch.object(engine_mod, "search_conversation_memory_by_keywords", return_value=[], create=True), \
+         patch.object(engine_mod, "_build_enrichment_context_hint", return_value=""):
+        # Call the internal enrichment helper directly via the same path the
+        # engine does — if the symbol moves, this import will fail loudly.
+        engine_mod.extract_search_params_for_memory(
+            "hello",
+            cfg.ollama_base_url,
+            engine_mod.resolve_tool_router_model(cfg),
+            timeout_sec=cfg.llm_tools_timeout_sec,
+            thinking=cfg.llm_thinking_enabled,
+            context_hint="",
+        )
+
+    assert captured["chat_model"] == "small-judge", (
+        "enrichment extractor should resolve via resolve_tool_router_model, "
+        "not cfg.ollama_chat_model"
+    )
+
+
+@pytest.mark.unit
+def test_resolve_tool_router_model_is_public():
+    """The symbol is imported cross-layer (daemon, memory viewer, listener),
+    so it must stay part of the public API — underscore-prefixed names are not
+    allowed."""
+    from jarvis.reply import engine
+
+    assert hasattr(engine, "resolve_tool_router_model")
+    assert not hasattr(engine, "_resolve_tool_router_model"), (
+        "the private alias was removed — callers should use the public name"
+    )